Exactly one week ago, Baltastar Ebang Egonga, the Equatorial Guinea former senior civil servant trended on social media for recording his sex romps with different women. Within days of such public embarrassment, Nigerian social media influencer and activist, VeryDarkMan (VDM), whose real name is Martins Vincent Otse, said he had discovered over 400 sex videos of Egonga’s wife with other men. This revelation turbocharged the scandal swirling around the couple.
Prior to the bombshell from VDM, many netizens had spoken about the beautiful and seemingly unassuming wife of Egonga with empathy over the psychological ordeal which the exposure of her husband’s sex scandal had put her through and their children too. In the flood of support which poured out for her, no one could have imagined that Mrs Egonga was equally guilty of the moral depravity exhibited by the husband, in that she had also amassed her own sex videos with other men numbering as VDM alleged. A real bad-ass Mama jammer.
Reacting to this, a netizen wrote: “I knew something was wrong the way she kept quiet when her husband’s sex videos leaked.”
It is possible that they both never envisaged that the sex videos would come into the possession of the public. As they carried on their free sex lifestyle reminiscent of the 1970s Hippie era, the couple never considered their children and the enormous embarrassment which their “hidden” shameless sex acts, captured in living colour, would cause to the innocent children who are now scarred for life. What a shame!
Husband and wife who are one of a kind. They have indeed danced naked in the marketplace. Somehow, maybe, this is what has kept the Egonga’s together as a couple until their secrets were blown open.
More shocking is the fact that while everyone thought that the husband was the hottest man in the sex act, no one would have imagined that the wife had the same predilection as the husband. The same way her husband was running women in his office and at the family’s beach house, his wife was equally running other men at available places.
From the wife’s leaked video, it appears Baltasar is still a learner as far as oil rig exploration is concerned. The woman’s videos also revealed that behind that innocent beautiful look, she is a sex maniac or freak. The video showed where other men were shamelessly eating a mother of six children raw. Therefore, her ice-cold, imperturbable reaction to the husband’s leaked sex videos was worthy of the commendation of the Egyptian Sphinx. Not a word did she utter in the heat of the moment. Notwithstanding, her atrocities remain a stigma that would haunt her for life. What will she tell her children, siblings, parents and friends? How would she raise her head among her peers? Even her personality and marital life have been punctured and crumbled like a pack of cards.
Very unfortunate is the fact that even if she changes her name and relocates to another country, the sordid details of what transpired have been documented and archived on the capacious cloud storage of the internet, ready to be pulled up at the touch of a computer keyboard or phone keypad. Egonga’s wife and the 400 other women her husband ravished happen to be mothers who have debased womanhood.
While we may crucify these recklessly immoral women, it is to be recognised that there are several other women in the same shoes with these daughters of satan. So many married women throw caution to the wind, to frolic with men who are not their husbands. The only difference is that their sex videos have not leaked yet. Married women who patronize secret love nests with their young lovers are Egonga’s wife in the making. Married women who are specialists in chop-and-clean sex in neighborhoods, offices, markets, schools, etc are not different from Egonga’s wife. Married women who fight over a young apprentice are also possessed by the demon that took hold of Egonga. Married women who are ready to roll in the hay with their brothers-in-law will soon join leagues of Egonga’s wife. Only God knows the accusations and counter-accusations that are going through the mind of the wayward couple in their competitive made-for-video sex.
The big question is: what exactly was Mrs Egonga looking for outside her matrimonial home? Even though she had a strong man who could bring down over 400 women? Yet, he was not good for her. She needed to look for other men’s “staff of office” outside her matrimonial home. It obviously means her man was not good enough for her.
Just like I lashed out at Baltasar Ebang Egonga and men who are like him last week, I state that married women who see nothing wrong with having sex and even attending sex parties with different men who are not their husbands should be ashamed of themselves. That devilish claim that “he does not satisfy me” has led many men to an early grave while trying to satisfy their women. Now that Mrs Egonga has stripped herself of all her respected titles, are other women ready to repent of multiple sexcapades? Are they quietly learning to close their legs and honour their husbands?
Some married women think it is a fantasy to “explore” outside their home. Some try it and get away with it, while some do not live to tell the story. Cheating is not about looks. It is not about how poor or wealthy one is. A cheat will remain a cheat no matter what his or her partner brings to the table. Even if her man gives her the best or vice versa, a cheat must be a cheat. Who will console the Engonga children? Their case is really pathetic.
Now, some time ago, a sex video of a married woman who laid naked beside her boyfriend in his hotel room leaked and circulated online. According to the story that went round, the woman was in the habit of dropping off her children at school, and then driving to her boyfriend’s hotel room where both got entangled in a sex romp. On that fateful day, while they were in their corner doing their thing, she did not notice that the camera was set up in the ceiling to pick up every action. After her so-called enjoyment, that same week, her sex video leaked to her husband’s knowledge. It was too late for her to hide. Her husband descended on her heavily and sent her packing immediately. The same boyfriend that put her into trouble abandoned her. She lost on both sides. Her case became that of ‘double wahala for dead body’ according to the late legendary Fela Anikulapo-kuti.
Once during a private discussion by women, a married woman said that keeping a side-boo helps marriage to function. When the in-house service is poor and unsatisfactory, the side boo takes care and keeps madam warm, oiled and humming like a V-6 engine – allowing her manage her marriage to the husband. A married woman with such a mentality is not different from Egonga’s wife because she will definitely cheat on her husband. For those married women whose husbands are not their besties, be very careful the clock is ticking.
Who knows, sexual rascality was what kept the Egonga’s together as a couple until the bubble burst. From the trending videos of both husband and wife, it may not be farfetched to say that such relationships in that country are very common. Sex there has no control. It is such a common market where anyone can rattle anyone. In time, one might see blood relatives committing incest because that was what they saw of the parents. It is a free world over there, where anybody can just grab anyone for sexual experience. If mature adults can go without control, what will happen to their GenZ children? It is so scary, to say the least.
Dear men, have you all lost your power of restraint – to the extent that you run into any orifice that winks invitingly? Please find your Joseph backbone and flee from Potiphar’s wife’s invitation. But make sure you don’t leave your tie behind because she can still turn around and frame you with it. Establish boundaries and don’t go beyond them.
Have a lovely Sunday and a beautiful week.