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No doubt, God Almighty the creator made procreation the first ever reason why intimacy holds. “Increase and multiply” is a biblical injunction that most couples work hard to obey.
Marital intimacy, generally, should lead to procreation. Unfortunately, some couples who copulate without result are usually not happy people. In such a situation they do not feel that they have obeyed injunction on fruitfulness. It is the utmost wish of every married couple to see the fruit of their copulation.
Now, there are other natural and man-made reasons why sexual pleasures will continue to explode. But then, great as sex could be, it has some non-benefits. There are sexual encounters that both men and women should not embark on.
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Apart from reproduction, sex therapists have confirmed that sex is extremely beneficial to health because it activates a variety of neurotransmitters that impact not only the brains but several other organs in the body.
A sex therapist, who chose to remain anonymous, explained some of the benefits sex for both men and women. “Sex releases endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin which foster feelings of closeness, trust and attachment,” he said. Physical intimacy lowers stress hormones like cortisol and acts as a natural mood elevator. Other good qualities of sex according to the therapist are that it is linked to lower blood pressure, improved heart health, and potentially stronger immune function. It gives the immune system, better healthy heart and possibly lower risk for heart diseases. He adds that it improves self-esteem, decreases depression and anxiety. It also increases libido and sound sleep after a good action. Other areas upheld according to the therapist are that it can lead to greater overall happiness and contentment within a relationship. For men, frequent ejaculation (around 20 times per month) is linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer. But the icing on the cake as far as sex is concerned is that it is important to note that the benefits are maximized when both partners feel satisfied and safe.”
In the same vein, almost all the sex studies suggest that regular healthy sexual activities offer a maximum significant health benefit.
In another development, some other studies have proven that sex could be destructive, regrettable and could cause heart-break. Just like an adage says that the great sound of bitter-kola in the mouth does not guarantee a great taste either. Therefore as satisfying, incredible, upholding, health and healing sex could be, when carelessly played, it becomes undesirable.
With all the great offers good sex dangles before men and women, there are times sex fails both parties woefully.
Now, when office romance leads to office sexual activities in one’s place of work, office or shop, according to another source, it says that such victims should know that “work environment is a financial altar. It is a ground of productivity, focus and income, whether one likes it or not, sex is spiritual. The moment the workplace is turned into a place of sexual worship, playground of indulgence; when the sexual financial altar is compromised, it invites the spirit of bad luck into one’s life and business. Experience has taught that money flows where discipline lives. When there is a mixture of pleasure with one’s professional environment, the system that feeds an entire family is weakened.
Truth is that a moment of excitement can cause years of career growth to dwindle. One exposed scandal can close doors that took decades to build and open. For anyone that wants financial increase, kindly protect the altar of your productivity.
Secondly, paying prostitutes to sleep with is a habit that drains more than money. It drains self-respect and discernment. At first, it may look like just a transaction, but over time, it becomes a repeated financial leak and an addictive pattern. It is also assumed to be a circle of secrecy and shame, a gateway to risk and blackmail. This is one of the irresponsible types of sex that is destructive. One will not believe the kind of money men spend just to sleep with a lady for a few minutes. One cannot believe a flight ticket, hotel accommodation, orders for expensive food and drinks just to sleep with a lady. It has not ended because her services and showing up will be paid for. Funny enough, some of these men are legally married, yet not taken care of their wives. The women that are married to such men do not receive such luxury treatment. Yet, one wonders why they are going down financially. Money spent on destructive please never builds wealth, it builds dependency.
Financial prosperity requires long term thinking, paying for temporary gratification, trains the mind to prioritize instant pleasure over future stability. One cannot build wealth while funding habits that weaken the character.
Again, another irresponsible sex one should not be involved in is pornography and masturbation because it trains the brain to crave instant stimulation. The duo weaken discipline, shortens attention span and reduces one’s capacity for delayed gratification.
One then asks, what does financial success require for both men and women? It requires focus, patience, consistency, and long term investment thinking. When one’s mind becomes addicted to instant reward, it becomes harder to save money, invest wisely, build patiently, resist impulsive spending. While such diminishes a man, sexual discipline strengthens mental discipline; then mental discipline strengthens financial discipline. What you feed privately determines how you function publicly.
There are people who are engaged in multiple casual sexual pleasures with multiple people whose medical and spiritual problems they do not know. Sleeping around with people one does not know their medical history will really cost them a lot. Most men who are battling HIV/Aids and other deadly sexually transmitted diseases are because they could not discipline their desires. A whole therefore goes into their medical bill to treat infection. They start living on drugs to survive. In some cases they are not healthy enough to carry on with their job of putting food on the table.
Has anyone considered the spiritual aspect of irresponsible sex? Well, sex is spiritual and sleeping around with different people makes one open his or her spirit to different other spirits. Little wonder one cannot concentrate very well. A careless freewill sex-giver cannot focus on things anymore to achieve success. Therefore, say no to any form of sex outside marriage.
Irresponsible sex leads to unwanted pregnancy and complications during abortions. This is one of the most financially and emotionally devastating consequences of sexual recklessness. An unplanned pregnancy is one of the worst things that can happen to people, especially women. When Peace and Eric began to walk hand-in-hand as lovers; none bothered to note the red flags and take precaution. Next was pregnancy which both never wanted. Both mothers saved the situation and intermittently nursed the baby until she was two. Case not settled, Eric and Peace continued in their brouhaha and Peace killed their two year old so nothing brings Eric near her anymore. Irresponsible sex can bring sudden financial pressure, legal responsibilities, emotional trauma, medical expenses and career interruptions. Complications from unsafe procedures can lead to long term health issues which further affect productivity and earning potential. A moment of pleasure can create many years of financial responsibility. Do not forget that children are a blessing, but when conception is careless and unplanned, the financial burden can become overwhelming. Sexual discipline is not repression. It is protection that relaxes the nerves.
Dear all, before you embark on that careless sex journey, look before you leap to avoid stories that touch the heart.
