Why my father’s illness was kept private — Peter Rufai’s daughter

By Seyi Babalola

Confidence, one of Peter Rufai’s daughters, revealed why her father’s sickness was kept confidential, citing his strong preference for a peaceful existence.

Daily Sun reports that Peter Rufai, a member of the 1994 AFCON-winning Super Eagles, passed away on July 3.

Rufai was honoured alongside three other Nigerian sports legends during a ‘Night of Tributes’ organised by Segun Odegbami and sponsored by Air Peace’s Chairman, Allen Onyema.

The event, held at the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs on Victoria Island, featured well-known people from the country’s athletic world.

Many Nigerians were taken aback by Rufai’s unexpected death, as they were unaware of his sickness. Confidence confirmed that her father had requested for complete privacy.

“To those who felt hurt by the secrecy, I apologise. My dad loved privacy. He truly enjoyed a quiet, reserved life.

“He didn’t want publicity about his condition. He would rather pass on peacefully than remain in the public eye because of illness.

“Honestly, he valued his dignity. He never sought public sympathy. Even in hardship, he preferred to remain silent and composed.

“My dad never bragged or sought attention. His sense of self-respect was deep. I see that trait reflected in myself,” Confidence said.

Speaking about Rufai’s patriotism, Confidence described him as a selfless Nigerian who gave everything to serve his country.

“When describing someone exceptional, words often fall short. Nigerians will judge him based on what they feel he earned.

“For me, describing my dad goes beyond words. He was a father figure not only to us but to many others.

“He often reminded us that his duty extended beyond family. He felt responsible for those less privileged than us.

“I cannot put a value on how Nigeria can honour him. His dedication to the country was beyond compensation,” she said.

Confidence also revealed that plans for Rufai’s burial are underway and would be announced soon.

“Some of us have followed in his sporting footsteps. My brothers are also involved. In time, more may come.

“My dad’s quiet nature runs in us. We prefer to keep things discreet. More will be revealed gradually.

“His burial date will soon be made public,” she said.