By Pat Onukwuli
Leaving behind the familiarity of acomfort zone in the early seventies, the journey from the East to the West was symbolic of the transition from childhood into the more demanding yet exciting world of secondary education.The crossing of the River Niger, with its vast expanse and flowing currents, on this journey was a splendid reminder of the immense possibilities ahead.This natural marvel, a mightybutcalm waterway, marked the boundary between familiar home grounds and the unknown adventures that awaited at the magnificent St. Patrick’s College, nestled in the tranquil West End of Asaba.Asaba was largely suburban and had not become a capital city.
St. Patrick’s College, “the University on the Niger”,is more than just an educational institution; it is where young boys become well-nurtured men. The experiences we had, the lessons we learned, and the friendships we formed there were foundational to our development. It was a beacon of excellence and a sanctuary for young minds eager to learn and grow. The school’s location, away from the hustle and bustle, provided a serene academic and personal development environment. Itsmagnificent trees, well-kept lawns, science laboratories, sports equipment, imposing buildings and quality indigenous and expatriate teachers painted a picture of opportunity and promise.
Among the many faces that became part of our daily lives at St. Patrick’s College, one classmate stood out from the beginning: Ejiofor Obimgba. His exuberant nature and infectious enthusiasm made him instantly recognisable and unforgettable. Whether in the classroom, on the sports field, or sharing stories, Ejiofor’s lively spirit and positive energy were ever-present. He was the kind of person who could brighten anyone’s day with his hearty laughter and unyielding optimism.After leaving the schoolconfines of St. Patrick’s College in Asaba, Ejiofor embarked on a new adventure, travelling to the United States for further studies that would culminate in his qualification as a Doctor of Nursing Practice.
This feat and his commitment to excellence would lead to an illustrious career in nursing.Despite the challenges and demands of studying and working in a foreign land, Ejiofor’s determination and dedication never wavered. He thrived in his chosen field, quickly establishing himself as a respected and successful nursing professional. His achievements in the United States were remarkable, reflecting his exceptional skills, compassion, and commitment to healthcare. Ejiofor’s journey from a student in Nigeria to a highly accomplished medical practitioner in the United States inspires, showcasing what is achievable through hard work and perseverance.
What sets Ejiofor apart, however, is not just his professional success but his unyielding connection to his roots. Despite his busy career and life in the United States, Ejiofor never forgot his alma mater, St. Patrick’s College or his native town of Asaba. He remained deeply connected to the community that shaped his early years, visiting frequently and contributing in any way he could with the same enthusiasm and energy that defined his character during his school days. Ejiofor’s commitment to giving back to his community speaks volumes about his values and the depth of his character. His example stands out in an era where career and modern life pressures often lead to disconnection and isolation.
Ejiofor’s visit to Nigeria in December 2023 would be his final sunset. On this journey, he was the torchbearer and driver for our class reunion in Benin City, posing for selfies with everyone and leaving nostalgic memories.Sadly, on his way back to the United States in early January 2024, Ejiofor’s vibrant light suddenly and unexpectedly extinguished in Lagos. This abrupt loss of such a dynamic and influential figure leaves a void profoundly felt by all who knew him. Ejiofor’s passing is not just the end of a remarkable life; it is a poignant reminder of the fragility of existence and the importance of cherishing every moment.
His sudden death brings to sharp focus the need to prevent sudden death among middle-aged black men, especially in Nigeria. His passing is not just a personal loss but anemotionalmementoof a broader health crisis that urgently needs addressing. Middle-aged black men are disproportionately affected by sudden and unexpected deaths, often due to preventable health issues. Ejiofor’s untimely demise underscores the critical need for increased awareness, early intervention, and comprehensive healthcare strategies tailored to this vulnerable demographic.
The statistics in Nigeria are alarming. Many middle-aged men are at heightened risk for conditions such as hypertension, heart disease, and diabetes, all of which can lead to sudden death if not properly managed. These health disparities are rooted in a complex interplay of socioeconomic factors, limited access to healthcare, and often a lack of awareness about the importance of regular medical check-ups. Ejiofor’s death is a painful illustration of these realities, underliningthe urgent need for systemic changes and personal vigilance.
Preventive healthcare is crucial in addressing this issue. Unfortunately, sudden death can occur in seemingly healthy people; therefore, its symptoms can be hard to detect. However, regular screenings, blood pressure monitoring, cholesterol checks, and lifestyle modifications like quitting smoking can significantly reduce the risk of sudden death. Middle-aged men in Nigeria must prioritise their health, seek medical advice, and adhere to prescribed treatments.
Community outreach programs, public health campaigns, and culturally sensitive healthcare services are essential in bridging the gap and ensuring these men receive the care they need.Furthermore, there is a need for a cultural shift in attitudes toward health and wellness within the Nigerian community. Normalisingdiscussions about health risks and preventive measures should be a priority, and men and women should be encouraged to take proactive steps towards maintaining their health.
In honouring Ejiofor’s memory, we must commit to addressing the factors contributing to the high rates of sudden death among middle-aged men in Nigeria, which involves advocating for better healthcare policies, supporting research into health disparities, and promoting education on preventive care. Through these collective efforts, we can hope to prevent other families from experiencing the same anguish.
Ejiofor’s life, marked by his vitality and dedication, should inspire everyone to take charge of their health and make informed decisions. Focusing on preventive measures and ensuring that every individual has access to quality health care can turn this tragedy into a catalyst for positive change.Let Ejiofor’s legacy not only celebrate his life and achievements but also galvanise us into action. Let us work towards a future where sudden deaths among middle-aged men in Nigeria are no longer a common occurrence but a rarity. In doing so, we honour Ejiofor’s memory and ensure his passing was notin vain.
Let us strive to emulate his dedication, enthusiasm, and generosity in lighting a beacon in his name. Also, we should remember that our roots and the communities that shaped us remain integral to our identity no matter where life takes us. Ejiofor’s life is a shining example of how success and humility coexist and how we can all make a difference by staying connected and giving back.
•Onukwuli, PhD,writes from Bolton, UK