Celebrating Dr. Nkem Okoro: A Beacon of Family and Faith
By Vera Bassey
In a heartfelt celebration, Dr. Nkem Okoro, the esteemed founder of “The Wife,” a non-governmental organization dedicated to empowering wives, was honored on her 66th birthday. The event highlighted her profound impact on family life and women’s empowerment, showcasing her dedication to her family, faith, and community.
Dr. Okoro, a former teacher at Kings College, Lagos, has been a pillar of strength and virtue, shaping many lives through her teachings and actions. Her surprise birthday celebration began with the soulful melodies of a saxophonist at the gate, a gesture that moved Dr. Okoro to tears. This event, organized by the women of “The Wife,” was a testament to the high regard in which she is held and her significant influence over the years.
Pastor Sam Okoro, a retired Senior Pastor from the Guiding Light Assembly in Park View, Ikoyi, delivered a poignant message during the celebration. He called on Nigerian husbands to support their wives in all their endeavors, emphasizing that such support fosters peace and happiness in the home. “We remain the head of the family, but supporting our wives, even in domestic chores, strengthens family bonds,” he said. His call to action highlighted the importance of mutual support in marriage, challenging traditional notions of male dominance.
Pastor Okoro illustrated his point with personal anecdotes, describing how he assists his wife, Dr. Nkem, in her work, including conducting research for her books. This collaborative approach has been a cornerstone of their marriage, fostering compatibility and mutual respect. He stressed that every individual, regardless of gender, has unique strengths and that recognizing and supporting these strengths can lead to a harmonious family life.
The admiration Pastor Okoro has for his wife was evident as he described her unwavering faith and commitment to family. “She loves her family and follows God’s commands without hesitation. If reincarnation were possible, I would marry her again,” he said, expressing profound love and respect for her sacrifices and dedication.
Dr. Nkem Okoro, reflecting on her journey, sang praises to her supportive network and expressed gratitude to the women of “The Wife” for their tolerance and support over the past 18 years. She recounted how her faith journey began, contrasting her path with that of her siblings, and acknowledged the formidable force the women in her organization have become.
Mrs. Ada Emeka Mathew, the Chief Coordinator of “The Wife,” described Dr. Okoro as a practical teacher who lives by the principles she espouses in her book, “Grooming the Next Generation.” Her teachings have left an indelible mark on her children and students alike, earning their respect and admiration. Dr. Okoroâs tenure at Kings College, spanning over 32 years, was marked by her strict yet nurturing approach, shaping many young minds.
The impact of Dr. Okoro’s work extends beyond her immediate family and students. Dr. Dimalozie, the chairman of the planning committee for the celebration, highlighted how many husbands respect Dr. Okoro, often unbeknownst to her, due to her exemplary leadership and influence. He shared how her teachings on marital intimacy have brought joy to many homes, with spouses reporting happier and more fulfilling relationships.
Dr. Okoro’s influence is a testament to her dedication to faith, family, and community service. Her husband’s support has been instrumental in her journey, enabling her to inspire and empower countless women. As the celebration concluded, it was clear that Dr. Nkem Okoro’s legacy of love, faith, and empowerment would continue to resonate, bringing peace and happiness to many homes.
In honoring Dr. Okoro, the celebration underscored the profound difference one dedicated individual can make, fostering stronger, happier families through love, support, and unwavering faith.
