Women stop asking your men for money, instead ask for sex. This will definitely sound ridiculous to most ears. In fact, some female readers would wonder if the writer is a fellow woman who is operating in this same clime. “How can I ask my husband for sex instead of the usual money. Yes, asking for sex is fully allowed and doable by the women. But then, the task would seem so weird for most women to carry out. One imagines the scenario and strange shock that will meet the man when his woman asks him for sex instead of the usual money.
Interestingly, for once, let us try out new characteristics and change the tempo. Let us turn the table around a little and see the beautiful effect of the sexual request.
In most homes, and from time immemorial, men have always been the ones who ask women for sex. With all shades of civilization, let the women brace up and begin to re-write the known stereotype. Life and times have transformed to the extent that women should also transform to boldly request their husbands for sex anyhow as far as together.
Now, it all depends on the relationship between the couple. But then, why would a woman be in need of her man’s sexual pleasure and pretend or hide her feelings? Why do some women close up only to respond to the call when they want to be pregnant? Some are as difficult as turning their men down, how then would such a timid woman request for the show? Why do they keep hiding religious services and die in dire need of the third leg. Some think that their daddy G.O would issue them a query for enjoying their marital bliss. Once have I heard a marriage counsellor say to his students’ “Be a good Christian out there and a prostitute in your husband’s bedroom.’ Every man wants his wife to be romantic and involved in bed. No man will love to have a “bedroom failure” as a wife. Therefore, no matter how religious the man is, he wants romance, exciting and enjoyable moment with his woman.
Interesting, few futuristic women use sign languages which not all men understand. I charge you today to be bold, let the fire of love move you to invite your man to action. It is your power and right. You have the right to fiddle with him at will and vice versa; then, stand and enjoy the outcome of the fiddling.
Shocking is the fact most women do not even know that men are moved by sights. For the shy ones who might not have the liver to beckon on their men; then, seduce your man with nudity. Do it with a mini-skirt and low neckline tops so when you bend, your mammalian glands will stare menacingly at him. Get transparent push-up brassier, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can. Dress up in his front. Make it “The-more-you-look-the-more-you-see” affair. Be romantically slow to the extent he will notice you because you are in your palace, the man is all yours.
With a dangle and romantic dance around him, the rest they say will become history. You will become a bigtime winner.
Honestly, the very few bold ones who knows how to press their man’s mumu-button will always be winners. All those unnecessary flimsy excuses of ‘I am not in the mood’, I am observing my red flag, this and that headache, up and down traffic and I am so tired should be a thing of the past. Women, stand up and possess your personal possession. One only live but once. It is also important to let women know that their men are also human with blood running through their veins. They need the care, pamper, love and watch them rock your moon. How that day shall be when men would sit back and wait for their women to make the move of oil rig exploration. How exciting, interesting and enjoyable life would become.
It only takes smart women to understand the power of sexual request and its application to their men. A woman can use sexual request to attract extra love to herself and bend rules to her favor. She could become a jewel of inestimable value due to her bedroom requests and activities around it. A man’s ego, pride, decision could be won by sexual request. Again, if you want your men to fall in love repeatedly and treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, then play your card well. Give him the real food he needs. Make him understand what makes a man. One of the greatest buttons to click is sexual request. Both will enjoy the sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with together.
Now, know it that men are more aroused when their wives seduce them. Most men enjoy sexual invitations. Surprise your man by inviting him; become the “seducer” and see how happy he will be. Do not be ashamed to flirt with your husband; be his mistress, side chick and concubine.
In as much as men love their praises, in addition, invite them to the service altar in the bedroom and add praise singing to it. You will never lack your man’s love all your life. You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I do not know of a man who do not respond to praise sex value added to it.
For the stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men, they do not usually have lasting marriages because they are blinded with negativity which will never arouse sex in them. Such women are not part of this discussion. They can never be convinced to invite their men physically or materially to the football pitch. Women, praise your husband silly and draw him into action; then see that Wao experience. You will be shocked how things will turn around in your favour.
Again, appreciate his efforts in the home. Look out for his good qualities, sing song in his ears daily and add sexual request to it. The world would be yours.
Most women have heard that respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your man and honour him with an unexpected sexual invitation in the wee hours of the night. Start off the play, press every pressable buttons and allow him melt into your arms.
Those women who complain of their husband’s frequent sexual demand should act otherwise. Now, do the demand yourself and do not let him complain. Since you know his crave for sex is similar to his need for food; why watch him hunger for sex when you can give him an invite immediately and quench his starvation.
Unfortunately, men and women are naturally wired differently. With these variations in mind, all you need as his woman is to know how he understands sex because it is one thing men would ask more of. So, an invitation to it would be heavenly. Almost all men wish their wives to step up their sexual abilities and give them more at “bed time”. Why wait to be told, extend an invitation to sex with your man and see the beauty of a relationship.
Truth be told is that every man’s sexual drive is stronger than that of a woman. While you as a woman is still enjoying the fulfillment yesterday’s sex, your “lover boy” is already thinking of how to get another one, the reason you need to sit up and ask for sex with your man regularly. Knowing also that nature made his sex drive strong, to avoid stories that touch the heart, give him regular sex.
Throw a careless sexual invitation unknowingly to him because he needs routine sexual gratification the same way you his wife needs routine acts of love, care and kindness. Just as you want him to be kind to you; he also expects you to be available in bed as long as he wants you. Crises arise when the wife wants the act of kindness before sex and the man wants sexual gratification before an act of kindness. My word for you wifey is; break the cycle. Request and give him sex and see his loving and caring reaction flow freely.
Women, have you noticed that almost all men experience arousal, attraction and temptation regularly, what then are you waiting for woman? With a heart felt sexual invite, let your man fall into your hands, and not that of strange women. Help him manage his sexual life.
Dear Nigerian women, throwing a sexual invite to your man is not a sin but perfect wisdom as a woman. If you must keep your man, protect your home and send strange women far from your husband, use what you have to get what you want only with only your man.