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In 1 Cor.7:1-2, Paul says, “It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”
From the Biblical foregoing, was Paul talking about first or second marriage? I am convinced that the above Bible portion is talking about the first and second marriage. “It is good for a man not to touch a woman [if he had divorced any}. Nevertheless to avoid fornication {that is, jumping from one woman to the other} let every man {who has divorced} have his {destined} own wife and let every {divorced} woman have her {destined} husband.’
Paul did not say, “To avoid fornication, let every man have just one wife, and let every woman have just one husband” You can agree with me here that when ones partner dies, the saying of Paul is still valid. Let every woman who married in darkness remember that when light comes in, it will seek for attraction, for like attracts like.
Now consider the saying”… Let every man have his own wife…” why did he not say, let every man have a wife rather he said “let every man have his own wife.” This simply means that every man is destined to marry a wife of his destiny via the knowledge of the will of God. If you have not married your own wife, I humbly implore you via this publication to search for her and be married to her for it is the only way you can gain victory over disunity, disgrace, hatred and other related matrimonial problems caused by the woman you call your wife, who on the other hand is not your OWN WIFE.
If one purpose of marriage is to provide a lawful fulfillment of the natural sex urge, then why would God deny that fulfillment to people who have been divorced? Are they forever condemned to live in sin because of their marriage failure? Would not a loving, forgiving heavenly father prefer that a victim of divorce, whether it was his fault or not be allowed to fulfil his God-given {natural} sex urge with his lawful, destined, second mate rather than to fulfil it outside of marriage or to “burn” with lust?
In 1 Cor. 7:9, Paul say, to men and women who found themselves in this situation thus, “But if they cannot contain, let them marry, for it is better to marry than to BURN’ Some church leaders would say, “it is better to burn than to marry” but this is not the bible’s remark. The Christian who is divorced is free to remarry than dying under some unnecessary church laws that will only help to delay the proper civilization of our society.
Let us be realistic to ourselves, the Bible is very clear in this issue. From the bible book of Genesis to Revelation, you will discover that God hate divorce that is, when the union is contracted by destiny and his will. He hates to be divorced when you marry his will. Considering his will in mind, he hates putting away and divorce but you cannot find in the whole Bible where it is written, “God hates remarriage” this is because it isn’t there. It cannot be found. Therefore the Christian is absolutely free to remarry when divorce is granted.
Still on the issue of remarriage, the encounter the Pharisees had with Christ in Matthew 19 is of utmost importance here. Christ made them realize Moses gave them the law due to the hardness of their hearts. The Pharisees said, “Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away” Matthew 19:7. Jesus answered thus, “Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives but from the beginning it was not so” Matthew 19:8. Here the lord corrected the Pharisees by making it clear to them that Moses did not command divorce but he “suffered” {allowed} it because of the hardness of men’s heart. In verse 9 of the same chapter, he stated that any man who puts away his wife without justification, causes her {and anyone who marries her} to commit adultery. NOTE: I had already informed you in this book that Jesus does not see the union of undestined partners as marriage as a result their divorce is not a matter of challenge and does not call for more attention.
Now in verse ten of the same chapter, we noticed the reactions of Christ’s disciples thus,”…if the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.” They were very open to their master because the teaching of Christ bamboozled them much to the extent that they said, “if what you say is true, then it would be better for a man not to marry.” Here the disciples being Jewish men who were very familiar with the Old Testament law on marriage and divorce were evidently appealed that Christ would in essence disallow all divorce except in the case of marital infidelity. It seems that God’s view of marriage was much strictier than man’s especially in that male dominated society.