How many men know that a woman’s sexuality is tied to her heart? For some who know this fact, they apply wisdom and caution, to avoid hurting their women. The wise men are the ones who know how to lubricate the relationship with the oil of love. The early cry of Daisy on a certain day should have been recognised by her husband, Patrick, that he had hurt her. On the day in question, they were having a good time as a young couple. Then a persistent, strange telephone call kept Patrick’s phone busy but he refused to take the call.
Her husband’s evident reluctance to answer the call, stirred up suspicion in Daisy’s mkind, and made her countenance change. She asked him if another of his side-chicks was making the persistent call. To this simple question, Patrick replied, “It is my business and not yours.”
This infuriated her the more, saying, “Patrick, you have started again with your side-chicks, even in my home?” And hell was let loose. A mild argument escalated into a brawl that lasted till the wee hours of the night. Both were hurt and none of them apologised to thje other. Early in the morning when Mr. third leg rose from its quite corner looking for food to devour, Patrick stretched out to Daisy who wrapped herself angrily in emotional disturbance. “You dare not come near me, fool. With your hurtful words, carefree attitude and serial cheating. You hurt me at will and do not care about my feelings. How can I be sexually responsive to you?” Daisy angrily said.
With Patrick’s attitude, it is obvious that a woman that is hurt can never be turned on. Many a times, it has been noted that the strongest aphrodisiac that binds and keeps spouses excited about each other is love. When a woman is in love, and that love is reciprocated in various ways, it is enough reason for her sexuality to let loose. Thinking about her man, remembering his good deeds, being near him and hearing his voice alone can easily turn her on. So, men that know their onions, know how to get their sexual rights and turn their women on steadily.
When a woman is convinced that her man is sexually faithful to her. it is so easy to get her turned on. She shows defiant attitude in terms of sex when she knows that her man is cheating on her. So long as a woman is sure that her man is not making sexual advances to or flirting with any other women, she will forever fall for his suggestive advances any time, any day. Men, know it today that no woman likes to share her man with another woman.
Furthermore, when a man is real, strong and a personification of integrity and marital fidelity, nified, he will always enjoy his woman at will. A man who stands on his word and truthful will not only win the love of his wife, but will have great community value. He will always gain the qualities that turn his woman on.
Again, another set of men who know the things that turn their women on are those who unapologetically cherish them, in good and bad times. These men express their raw hunger for their women. They are men who express their fantasies for them; men who go about to celebrate their women’s achievements and accomplishments. Their women will always yield to their demands. For such men, there definitely would be a reason for the woman to be aroused. Again, she will enjoy the sexual masculinity and roughness of her man. Though the roughness will not be out to hurt her, instead take care of each part of her body with passion and a wild spark.
In the same vein, no woman jokes with her respect. A man who ensures his woman is respected by and protected from family and friends, knows how to turn his woman on. Lawrence refused to yield to his sister’s decision when she wanted Grace, his wife, to go to the village and take care of her aged mother-in-law. Lawrence insisted that the best hands for Mama would be Mama’s biological daughters. Giving the reason for his refusal, Lawrence said: “My children are too young them to be left alone.” Grace hugged her husband and was automatically turned on. That protection and respect alone is what every woman needs. So many men would succumb to their sisterss suggestion in this regard, and thereby disappoint their wives. No man can insult his woman like a little girl and expect her to be interested in making love with him.
Intelligent men make a difference in their relationships with their women. Jude was employed as a senior electrical engineer by a blue-chip company. He rose fast because of targets accomplished. One of his outstanding performances was when he gathered all his courses for the year and wrote the six examinations at once and passed in flying colours. His wife was not only proud of him but was turned on immediately she sighted him walking down from the aisle of the aeroplane. Right inside the car as they proceeded home, Jude got hot kisses from his wife and his responding touch turned her on. He knew his woman easily she responds to touch which turned her on. When a man knows where and how to touch, his woman will always get hot and ready for him.
A woman loves every inch of success, especially when it comes from her man. She loves it when he is creative in his drawings and painting, photography, different scripts, scenes and set up. His academic prowess and political excellence. All these turn a woman on. No one is ready to deal with a ‘Dundee United husband.’ As a successful and brilliant man, his approach to his woman will also be different. He will not be a boring man whose recreational activities mean to rest on his woman. He will not do the same thing over and over; instead, his adventurous moves turn her on.
Worthy of note is the fact that women love to be aroused progressively. She wants her man to engage her with intimate conversation, deep look into her eyes to read her signals. All these open up the door to her sexuality. She loves to be slowly unwrapped with sweet affectionate words because those words confirm her man’s motive is right.
There is need for the man to know his woman because each woman is different. Some love being talked dirty to, others love decency. Say words that call out her sexiness, not those that make her uncomfortable. If she likes it raw and rough, make her happy with her choice and see her sexiness respond with the speed of light.
Again, it is said that cleanliness is next to godliness. No woman wants a man with body odour. Some men could be compared to a dirty pig and no woman gets turned on with such. Some keep very bushy, dirty hair and even on all parts of the body. Those who wear one underwear several times without washing it. There are men whose sanitations are so poor that even fellow men don’t want to be around them. Such a man can never turn any woman on because cleanliness is also sexiness. The smell of his fresh skin and perfume draw his woman close and turns her on.
A woman gets carried away when she sees her man’s eye contact in admiration which tells how hungry he is for her. There are times that the fire in his eyes sets the ball rolling and the next would be quick hot sex.
A confident man takes his woman to the cloud and back. An insecure man cannot withstand an accomplished woman. Every thought, talk and work would be termed offensive and kills vibes of a happy romantic move between them. A confident man with a good dose of ego is a big turn on for women. For the fact that he is comfortable in his own skin and comes to her charging means the world to her.
Dear Men, every woman enjoys being pampered and made to feel special always, not only during occasions. Surprise her with various gifts, be keen on her needs, know what makes her happy, take her out and see her get all over you as her man. Such practice turns women on.