By Damiete Braide
The second edition of the FinishedWork Girlchild International Conference 2024 celebrated the power and potential of young girls, drawing attention to the myriad challenges they face and equipping them with the tools to shape their futures.
With the theme, ‘Girls’ Vision for the Future,’ the event which held at Afe Babalola Hall, University of Lagos, underscored the importance of education, empowerment and resilience in building a society where every girl can thrive.
The conference is a continuation of FinishedWork’s long-standing commitment to the cause of the girl-child, which began in 2006 when its founder, Lechi Eke, penned her seminal novel, The Girls Are Not to Blame. This book explored the journey of a girl seeking to discover her identity and fulfill her ambitions within the constraints of marriage. “The girl-child,” Eke reminded the audience, “is not merely a helper or companion but an individual with a unique purpose assigned by her Maker.”
Her message called on every girl to discover and pursue their God-given assignment, no matter the challenges they face.
The significance of this message was heightened as speakers examined the realities confronting girls today. Forced marriages, discrimination, inadequate access to education and societal pressures continue to hinder progress. However, the conference provided a platform for addressing these issues head-on, sharing insights and inspiring a generation to dream beyond limitations.
Dr. Harriet Nkechi Akubuiro, President of the Chartered Institute of Loan and Risk Management of Nigeria, delivered a stirring lecture titled, ‘X-raying the Risks Facing the Girl-Child and How to Mitigate Them.’ She reminded the audience that while governments worldwide have made strides in addressing these challenges, the ultimate responsibility lies with each girl.
“Your vision for the future is in your hands,” she declared. Akubuiro emphasized self-reliance, urging girls to take control of their destinies, embrace education as the most powerful tool, and build strong personal brands characterized by integrity and purpose.
The conference’s emphasis on education resonated deeply throughout the event. Prof. Bose Afolayan of the University of Lagos, spoke on ‘Hopes of the Girl-Child.’
She highlighted critical barriers, including early pregnancies, forced marriages, and a lack of access to health and educational resources. For many girls, these obstacles are compounded by societal expectations and cultural norms.
Yet, Afolayan stressed the transformative power of education. She said: “Education is the key to life. It enables a girl to dream, aspire, and achieve a better future than her mother’s.”
She painted a hopeful picture of the girl-child as someone determined to succeed in a variety of fields whether as a professor, banker, or entrepreneur, adding that the value of wealth lies in its ability to positively impact others. At the same time, she cautioned against chasing money at the expense of health or integrity.
The importance of resilience and intentionality was reinforced by Mrs. Ayodeji Megbope, CEO of No Left Overs Nigeria Limited. Sharing her inspiring journey from selling moi-moi (bean pudding) to addressing global audiences, including an encounter with Michelle Obama, she reminded the attendees that their current circumstances should not define their futures.
She said: “Don’t let your background deceive you. Be intentional about your goals, focus on your education, and don’t allow anyone to distract or defile you.” Megbope called on girls to embrace their childhood, work diligently, and carry themselves with dignity and self-respect.
A recurring theme throughout the conference was the call for a balanced approach to empowerment. While the focus was on uplifting girls, several speakers, including Lechi Eke, noted the need to educate boys as well.
“If we only train the girl-child, how can she succeed in society without the understanding and support of those around her?” Eke asked. Educating boys on respecting and valuing girls was seen as a crucial step in building a more equitable world.
The conference also provided practical advice for girls to navigate their journey. They were urged to avoid distractions like social media’s portrayal of fake lifestyles and instead focus on their studies and long-term goals.
“Don’t waste precious time trying to keep up with the Joneses,” Eke advised. “If no one is paying for your education, pray and find ways to pay for it yourself it’s worth it.”
Ultimately, the event highlighted the need for girls to take ownership of their lives, make informed decisions, and believe in their ability to create change.
Dr. Akubuiro reminded attendees: “You are the most valued gender in the world. Develop a plan, stay firm and don’t let challenges derail your vision.”
The conference also shone a spotlight on the broader hopes and dreams of the girl-child. Prof. Afolayan emphasized the importance of imagination and intuition, noting that these qualities could guide girls to make impactful choices. Meanwhile, Mrs. Megbope challenged girls to rise to opportunities, stay true to their values, and strive for excellence. “The future we envision for the girl-child is one of resilience, audacity, and self-confidence,” she concluded.
The FinishedWork Girl-child International Conference 2024 stands as a testament to the power of dialogue, mentorship, and action in addressing the needs of the girl-child. It is a call to society to nurture and support girls, enabling them to reach their full potential and fulfill their purpose in life.