Hello guys, do you remember we are still listing what guys like in their Women; someone said he likes women who are open to new things; caring but not overly so, honesty is cool, can take a joke and likes to organize events. ‘She’s not a b*tch and doesn’t smoke cigarettes,’ says another. ‘It’s pretty simple to please me. Bonus points for being smart’. ‘Basically one thing, low maintenance, and low stress’. ‘Women who are so wound up they are constantly stressed out is NOT COOL’. ‘My ideal girl? I want her beautiful with eyes that shine like stars.
She’ll also marvel at my strength and adore my battle scars. I couldn’t care less what she wears or what she looks like. It really all depends on what she cooks like. Also, I would hope my girl will think I have no faults, that I’m a major find.
And contrary to the opinion of my contemporaries, I would like her to have a brain and for the most part speak her mind’…. Don’t all these make you wonder if men are confused? A lot has happened since I made my last entry.
Bola has had her surgery and it was successful. Fibroid is not a death sentence you know. I found out that most Ladies are unknowingly carrying it around. Studies show 80% of all women will develop uterine fibroids at some point during their lives. Because many women don’t experience any symptoms, it’s possible the incidence of uterine fibroids is even higher.
Fibroids are considered benign or noncancerous, but can make life painful. Fibroids may or may not cause symptoms. Some women have no symptoms with fibroids and are surprised when they’re discovered during a routine gynaecological exam.
Depending on the location of the growth, sometimes a fibroid can be felt during a pelvic exam. If you, your mother, wife, sister, girlfriend or female friend experience any of the following; heavy bleeding during menstrual period, periods that last more than a week, pain or pressure in the pelvic region, frequent urination and difficulty emptying the bladder, constipation, back or leg pain then you need to do the needful.
Talk to someone or get in touch with me if you are confused. After Bola’s surgery I ran into a guy whose sister had fibroid but could not afford the surgery, Warien Rose Foundation sponsored the operation. It felt good knowing someone that had been suffering for the past seven years has finally been able to get respite.
We had put our hangouts on hold to give Bola time to recuperate. I am back in the office and it feels like things are beginning to return back to normal “Hello, anyone here?” I heard Jasmine ask as she waltzed into my office. “Really Tobs? Lost in thought again? You sure you do not need to see one of ‘em, you know who” Jasmine said looking at me intently while trying to maintain a serious expression. “What the heck are you talking about Jaz?” I asked glaring at her. “Oh shut up Tobs, you are missing him or should I say them,” Jasmine stated with a sly wink obviously referring to Rick and Dennis.
My heart fluttered as I crossed my fingers behind me glaring at her, brutal honesty forces me to acknowledge Jasmine is right but there is no way I am going to admit that to her. Her annoying and knowing look rattled me, I changed the subject. “I know you’re a busy person so Madam Chief Executive what brings you here?” I asked blandly. “I booked a club for Friday night and it’s just going to be us’ girls.
Bola has been cooped up since her surgery and I want to give her a treat,” Jasmine said flickering her lashes at me. “Are you kidding me Jaz, she just had surgery! She should not be prancing up and down but resting,” I finished exasperatedly. “Hold on kiddo, why are you taking painkillers for someone else’s headache? Bola herself called to tell me she is bored hermosa chica,” she finished sweetly in Spanish blowing me a kiss as she stood up and waltzed out of my office. “I am providing what you Ladies will wear for the hangout. It will be delivered to your homes,” Jasmine said slyly with a wink. What is this girl up to now? I wondered